Reminder to self:
“…Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:42
I love homeschooling. It has worked well for our family, which is why we have stuck with it for so long.
When I count all of the hours we’d be in the car, running here and there, doing homework, etc. I think parents who have their kids in traditional school probably spend as much, or close to as much time, as I do, on school! Not to mention, some (probable) stranger would get the honor of spending all of that time with my kids -- and I’d miss out.
But this school year, and the prep leading up to it, this “seasoned” homeschool mom has been befuddled and bewildered.
Reevaluating.
Having to choose.
Too many choices.
Indecision.
Confusion.
Paralyzed at times.
What has always worked before isn’t working for us this year. I have had to make changes. And I really like the comfort of the “same-old, same-old”, so it is sort of hard.
I have four school or pre-school aged children at home this year -- from a highly intelligent and stereotypical Boy With A Curl In The Middle Of His Forehead who needs alot from ME, to a high-school young man who learns differently than his brothers before him, with two in between who cross over each other in some subjects, but have different learning styles and needs.
I finally realized that I needed to let go of a curriculum we really, really like, at least for awhile, and simplify. It was a huge blessing when my kids were closer in levels, and I could do it with multiple ages and levels at once. But things are different now and I need to be flexible. I am still sort of saying “boo-hoo”, but it is getting easier as I see how much sense all of the new things are making.
I am seeing light at the end of the tunnel, finally embracing the hints I’ve been seeing for months now. And I think I am going to rejoice at the “in with the new” as soon as it is all in place and running smoothly. Because it will fit. It will align with what I see as a desired end result, and peace will reign. In my heart anyway – probably not in this house full of jokesters and gymnasts doing parkour!
Back to the Basics:
“Every day, every hour, the parents are either passively or actively forming those habits in their children upon which, more than upon anything else, future character and conduct depend.”
~ Charlotte Mason
I look forward to the next couple weeks of establishing
and settling into our new routine!
6 comments:
I'm thankful you've found something that will work with your family! It is hard to let go of something you've been comfortable with, but it's always good to know when a change is in order. I applaud you!! It took me awhile to get to that point!
In time we learned we had to be very flexible in our home education efforts. A few curve balls have been tossed our way over the years (Adhd high IQ son, dyslexic son, Apraxic daughter and a drama-king!). They ALL have different learning styles. The first two made it through and went on to do very well in college, still working on the last two. :-)
Change is always hard. But it sounds like the new curriculum will work better for your situation. Hang in there!
You are a terrific mom and wvwen thought change is hard will make it with ease for your children and you. You sound like one well together person!
*hugs*deb
I knew this would all work out for you Tiffany. I thank you for being honest and letting us pray for you while you did. Change is not always a wonderful thing for me either, but I do so like how it looks when I finally give in and do it. Your family is blessed to have you and the kids are learning so much this year. Maybe it doesn't look like it to you, but they are seeing a person change when it needs to be done. May the Lord continue to guide you on this wonderful journey. Much love to you.
I identify! It has taken us 4 almost 5 weeks to really get into the groove with our new curriculum. Getting used to change is not easy! It is bound to change BIG time again. My student(s) are going to have to learn to be more independent.
I have been thinking about homeschooling already so I am so glad to have people like you to use as great resources!!
Luvs!
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