I wrote this previously, and hadn’t posted it yet. This week we are camping and doing school. That’s what I call flexible!
(So when you were a kid, maybe you walked all the way to school with your brother on your back. But did you DO school with your brother on your back?)
Somewhere online there is a blog(s) who host something called "Works For Me Wednesday". I won't take the time to find it now, but decided to post something that works for me anyway...
September 15, 2009
They say summer is not yet over, so I am having a hard time moving on. Don’t get me wrong. I love fall! We had planned to be gone on vacation all week, but my husband had to go out of town on business for part of that time, so we had to cancel.
All week I have been researching, buying the rest of our curriculums, and doing lots of miscellaneous tasks which needed my attention NOW. And I have been trying to ease my school aged children into the first days of school. In so doing, I am reminded how much better we function when we have a routine.
I have written before about how, a few times, words spoken at a home school conference have made an impact on my daily life. One such time was (probably at least 10 years ago) when Inge Canon talked about flexibility in homeschooling. She laughingly referred to those homeschoolers who would say “Oh, I don’t know what we are going to do today. We’ll see what comes up and learn from it. After all, I want to be flexible!”. Everyone laughed – because most of us know someone like that.
Now if I had good graphics skilz, I would make a moving picture of a stick bending and unbending and insert it here. But I don’t. So I will just put a picture of one up. As you look at it, imagine bending it. It is flexible. But that is because you have something to flex!
If we don’t start with a basic framework, we are not being flexible, we are being haphazard!
Now I have tried many of the scheduling programs and books out there. None of them work for me. So I have done many things over the years and tried to adapt it to my current situation. Some years it has been calendar pages, some it has been planning books or various other things. But I put it somewhere in writing, where I can follow it and make changes as needed. This helps me be flexible!
For my kids, I have set aside special time with each of them (and a cup of tea) to discuss their routine. This way I don’t forget anything, and they know they have had input to their schedules. It is also a great time to go over each part of their curriculum with them. If you review it periodically, it gives another opportunity to discuss where you or they can make changes or do something better. This is also a tangible way I can teach my kids to have discipline in their lives, and to learn what it truly means to be flexible!
Having a routine -- so I can truly be flexible, works for me!