Sunday, January 24, 2010

Haiti in '80

I first remember hearing of Haiti in 1980. It was the year St. Helens blew it's top in our neck of the woods. It's the year my brother Josh was born. It's the year my sister went to Haiti.

Haiti in '80.

To this day, this is how I remember when St. Helens exploded and also when each of my siblings were born (I have alot of them).

I know my sister went to Haiti in '80.

I know my little brother Josh was born the year my sister went to Haiti.

I know how much older/younger each sibling is in relation to another, so this little rhyme works well.


My Older and Wiser Sister is on the bottom row, second from the right, in a blue top.

They were constructing a building with Teen Missions International in a little mission called Christianville.


I think I'll change my rhyme, for now, to

80 FOR Haiti

$80.00?

80 praying friends?

Actively doing something for Haiti for 80 days?

What 80 do you think I have in mind for Haiti?

If you could dream anything, what kind of 80 would you give to Haiti?



Saturday, January 16, 2010

Orphans In Their Distress

I don't know if it is the fact that I have lost a child. Or the fact that I have lived the miracle of adoption.

It could be my age. Maybe the fact that I am a woman.

But I think it is just that I am a human. Humans feel things for each other.

This week my heart is fixed for hours every day -- on the TV, online or in conversations.

Haiti. Beautiful island nation.

Beautiful people. Determined faces, elegant high cheekbones. Skin just a shade or two lighter than ebony. My children have three beautiful friends who were born there. And they are stunning.

Strong people. You know, they were cruelly enslaved for years in their own country. And, as slaves, they won their independence through a slave rebellion.

Today they are enslaved by debris, by lack of water and shelter, by the presence and smell, everywhere they look, of death. They are at risk of falling prey to diseases.

To add to the misfortune of the Haitian people, in more recent years they have been enslaved by the lack of infrastructure and leadership and the country is rife with corruption. I have learned from my friends in the Dominican Republic that even now, in this time of crisis, port authorities cannot be trusted to get relief supplies where they are needed.

To add to an already overwhelming burden on caretakers, there will be even more orphans now. I'm watching their innocent faces, many bleeding, with no caring parent standing nearby the comfort them. I saw one little boy laying on a makeshift bed who said both feet hurt very bad and that his little brother is dead. He nods to another bed near him at another severely wounded sibling.

And he is there, in the midst of the medical professionals around him having to go to the most serious first,
bearing all of this
Alone
(insert mind's eye picture of your child here in his stead).

There are hundreds of waiting adoptive families here in the U.S. who have already gone through the red tape and know who their Haitian child is. The wait has probably already been too long. Will this cause their wait to be even longer? Where are their dossiers and all of the other paperwork they have already finished? CALL YOUR LOCAL LAWMAKERS and ask them to help with this issue. Please tell them to facilitate "humanitarian parole" for these children. Their parents have already had home studies, much or all paperwork is done but may be lost for an undetermined time, or permanently. This will get the kids here while all of the paperwork is sorted out and it will make room for other orphans who will be needing somewhere to live and be loved.

Have you ever thought about adoption? Are you willing to give up your empty nest or your perfect life or your kid's private school or lessons, or your big chain coffee drinks and brand name clothing, or your skimped-for retirement for a child?

ADOPTION IS A MIRACLE. Even if you have never considered it before, please open your heart today and ask God if this is something new He will do in your lives. We need to get ready. In the next few years, the need for adoptions will increase.

Please keep your eyes on this effort to bring hundreds, possibly thousands, of Haitian orphans to this country. They may eventually need adoptive homes, will likely need foster homes.

Here are some agencies where you can get started on your adoption research:
Holt International (Long standing, reputable agency)
New Life Link (Two families we know have adopted through the gentleman who runs this

This poem was written by a lady upon her return home from her first missions trip to Haiti several years ago. It paints such a thought provoking picture. I thought it said alot.

May God enable you to go beyond your comfort zone.



The Call of a Distant Land by Laura Gleaton

The people of this distant land had seemed so far away,
Their needs, their strife, their poverty ... “Not our problem,” I’d say.
“We have our own needy people, our hungry, our poor.”
“Why, they’re right here in our own backyard, Why should we take on more?”
But God had other plans for me. He was working on my heart.
He put me on a plane and made me listen from the start.
You see, my idea of poverty had been really misconstrued,
For here in this great land of ours, it’s a matter of asking ... and the hungry receive food.
But oh, how my eyes were opened to the ultimate despair.
These people whose whole lives are consumed with mere survival, how unfair ...
That they drink infested water, sometimes from puddles on the street.
They have few clothes; they have no shoes to wear upon their feet.
They swim and bathe amidst sludge and mud along with hogs and sow,
And why they were not all diseased I could only wonder how.
Day in, day out, they walk, they search, just trying to survive.
They try to sell their wares to those who’ll buy – to stay alive.
A simple shack they call their home, no electricity or plumbing,
With only the bare necessities, and no other resources coming.
The men, they toil, they labor, their sweat pouring from their brow,
To earn a wage ... mere dollars a week ... again, I wondered “How?”
The women struggle from dawn to dusk, their wash upon their head,
Journey to the rivers and streams, by donkeys they were led.
But the children, oh the children ... to see them told it all.
Their toys were rocks and animal bones, tattered cloth wrapped into a ball.
Some wore simple rags of old, some not a stitch in sight,
Their shoeless feet, their unkempt hair, told of their endless plight.
But yet, their eyes were not filled with tears, but with innocence and joy,
For a smile, or a hug, or a touch from us, would bring them so much joy.
And though not a word was understood between us, the language barrier in the way,
The language of love spoke loud and clear between us every day.
And I knew then what I was meant to see in this land so far from here,
A message that had eluded me was now so very clear,
That ‘cause even though these people lack things that we have come to know,
Their faith is strong; their love runs deep; they’re grateful to us so.
They had nothing, yet had it all, through God’s unconditional love.
From within shackled walls of worship, they praised Him up above.
We have so much, yet take for granted, things they’ll never know.
But God’s enabled us to reach out beyond our comfort zone.

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

In Company With Crazy

 

So yesterday I was in the car by myself.

I was listening to Dr. Laura.

WHY? Why do I feel compelled to listen to her when she hurts my feelings even though she isn’t talking to me? Maybe because the other talk option gets on my nerves with his perpetual hot air.

Well, anyway, I was listening to her.

I hear several callers and I agree with the doctor on some of her advice and don’t on other advice. Nothing new.

But then this single mom calls in. BOTH of her sons, as in ALL of her children, are serving as Marines in Iraq. She shares that she is having a hard time being happy, and a hard time not obsessing over the fact that her boys are in harm’s way. That she doesn’t have a spouse there to hold her when she cries, she is all alone.

I agree with DL’s first point. She points out that her son is also in Iraq and she has broached this subject with him before. He tells her that if we can’t be happy, then what they are doing by defending our country is in vain. Okay, I see that point. What a noble and sweet thing to say and a great thing for her to repeat.

But then she tells the mom that if she is thinking about her sons, and how they are in harm’s way all of the time and obsessing about it, that is not “normal”. That she needs to seek counsel for this “not normal problem”. That she must be prone to obsessing about things as an escape.

WHAT???!!   How can she possibly be serious? Can the world really be coming to this? We expect a mother to put her son out of her mind, when she knows he is in harm’s way constantly? That it isn’t “normal” to be preoccupied with it? That she should just go ahead and put on her cocktail dress and host her dinner party, and have a picnic and listen to music and take a bath and sleep at night – without a care in the world?

If it were all of my sons, or two, or even just one – you bet I’d obsess. I don’t know how I’d function except for by the grace of God Himself. It would continually be on my mind. I’d be covering them in prayer continually.

So if she’s not normal, than neither am I. Call me crazy.

 

Thank you Mothers Of Our Troops Everywhere. I’m thinking about them too.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Poof!

Ugh. When my new laptop crashed I lost my offline writing program. I need to have it reinstalled from where I hope I saved it but I haven't taken the time.

This morning I got all ready and got the kids situated doing their school assignments. I got my cup of delicious tea and sat down to write a post.

And write I did! I wrote a post I was really feeling.

An entire post.

Then, when I went to publish it, I saw the words "blogger could not save"...

I tried to reconnect but my (not very good) AT&T air card would not.

I had to restart. When I came back on, NONE of my work had successfully saved.

Now my kids are done with their assignments. My tea is about gone.

So this is my post.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

"This Is It", My Thoughts



Isaiah 45:18 For thus saith the LORD that created the heavens; God himself that formed the earth and made it; he hath established it, he created it not in vain, he formed it to be inhabited: I am the LORD; and there is none else.


We went to see the Michael Jackson movie "This Is It" tonight, which was the first night it was open in my area. I know many of you are planning to see it and I am not going to give anything away!



I went more out of nostalgia, and maybe a little curiosity, than as a crazed fan. In fact, I wasn't really even allowed to listen to Michael Jackson when I was growing up. But come on -- even I knew most of his songs by heart. They have become part of our very culture.


As I watched I was reminded of what a great talent MJ was. Unbelievable talent that I can't imagine having been bestowed all on one person. I had feared that two whole hours was too long to watch and that I might get bored. But it was truly captivating to watch and to listen. And I don't know if I could have seen the beauty I saw in it if I hadn't also felt the sadness. Disclaimer: There were definitely at least two parts that made me feel uncomfortable (a scene where girls are dressed and dancing provocatively and the scenes for Thriller).

Despite all of the questions about him, and all of the debate about who he was, if he was a bad or a good person, discussion about how strange people would say he was, etc. I felt sad. Because from the very beginning of the movie, I began to have a feeling I couldn't shake for the whole movie. I think maybe my eyes were opened to a truth I had not grasped before.

Before I can get to that, let me explain...

When I think about our desires as people, and what we have difficulties with, I have to go back to reminding myself what we were created for.

Isaiah 43:7 Even every one that is called by my name: for I have created him for my glory, I have formed him; yea, I have made him.

Revelation 4:11 Thou art worthy, O Lord, to receive glory and honour and power: for thou hast created all things, and for thy pleasure they are and were created.

Psa 102:18 This shall be written for the generation to come: and the people which shall be created shall praise the LORD.

So I am reminded that we were created to love and worship our Creator. And we were designed to share that Love.

We were not designed to be adulated. We were designed to adore.

So as I watched I was so impressed with how sad it was that every time Michael tried to show love, people acted like they were not worthy of his love and deflected it all back on him. People literally worshipped him, a human being, and did not allow him to really give love in return. At one point in the movie someone even verbalized it by saying it was like church.

It truly even frustrated me as I watched. It's kind of like that compliment you give that your friend never really receives.

"You are so beautiful."


"You nut. No I'm not. So sweet of you to say though."


"No, really! You are beautiful!".


"No, YOU are."


"You are gorgeous inside and out and I love you."


"NO, YOU are gorgeous and I LOVE YOU MORE."

It's like they are saying "I'm rubber, you're glue. Whatever love you give bounces off of me and sticks to you."

... makes me feel sad and tired just pretending I am having that conversation. "Just acccept my compliment already, and accept my love...PLEASE!"

What a sad and frustrating thing, probably even confusing, to never really be allowed to give love but to continually receive the worship of people, when you yourself are a person, and you also were created to worship and to praise and to love.

It seems with any gift, any strength we are given by God, there is a weakness. I often think artistic people feel things more deeply. So when someone feels deeply, when they love deeply, and they cannot find a way to either express their love, or find a way that they can get others to receive that love, it makes perfect sense to me that they would be perceived as strange. In fact, I think it would be miraculous if they were not weird.

It reminds me of that song "Starry, Starry Night" about Vincent Van Gogh, who was also very artistic. Seeing beauty and trying to share it. Feeling like no one will listen, really listen, to your heart. Everyone exalts you when you know intrinsically that you should not be exalted. And they turn all of your love back onto you. So really, they never truly even LOVE you, they just adulate you.

What pain we go through when we are not what we are created to be.


Saturday, October 24, 2009

Soup's On Saturday! Soups for Sickies


This week the Facebook status feed on my page has been filled with updates on people and families who have been hit with different illnesses, including several with H1N1. We are also around alot of these people in real life, and two of my boys are in a college setting and ride public transportation. So I am sure our family is being exposed to lots of nasty germs every day.


I remember staying home sick as a teenager. One thing I did that made me feel comforted was making myself chicken noodle soup (I hate to confess it was often Top Ramen!) and watching Perry Mason at 12 noon.

Did you have any special things you did, or do you do any certain thing now, if you or one of your family members gets sick?


Of course I am praying we don't catch anything. I have lots on hand to boost our immune systems, as well as items on hand to help if we do happen to catch anything.

One thing I do believe helps for both prevention and for actual flu and cold symptoms is bone broth. You've heard the addages about chicken soup -- and they are true. However, the most healing benefits come from the bones. I believe that adding a well made bone broth to a well made vegetable broth makes a delicious as well as nutritious and immune supporting soup.

I found some free range chickens on sale at a local health food store and ordered a case so I'd get a further 10% off. This helped me get my 12 chickens for $70.00. This works out to $5.83 each, which is a pretty good deal for free range chicken bought from a source I know and trust. I can find cheaper chickens, but I feel it is important to do my best to buy local, free-range and, if possible, organic sources for meat.

I have worked on my basic chicken soup recipe for several years now and have decided to share it today for Soups On Saturday. My recipe is formulated for an 8 quart pot, so please scale your ingredients accordingly.


24 Hour Basic Bone and Veggie Soup Base

~ Rinse one chicken and place it in an 8 quart cooking pot (I found my red Le Creuset 8 quart at Costco and used my refund check for it a last year!).



~ Season with desired seasonings. I always use lemon pepper liberally, and sea salt to taste. I also usually use garlic. But keep in mind that if you use too much garlic and you are making the soup for someone with a stomach flu, they may not be able to eat it. I add other seasonings after the chicken has been boiled and has simmered.

~ Pour cold water over seasoned chicken. This is where the size of your pan makes a difference. If it is a larger pan, you don't want to fill it as high. You don't want your broth to taste watery. For my 8 quart pot I fill until chicken is almost covered.





~ To this I add about 1/4 cup of white vinegar. This helps to extract the calcium from the bones. Most people add about 2 tablespoons , but personally, I like the taste it adds to our broth so I add more. And I feel this is the secret to how wonderful the soup tastes when it is done. It gives it a tang that is delicious.


~ Cover pot and bring to boil. Then turn it down to a simmer and cook overnight.


~ In the morning when I get up, I remove all of the larger pieces of meat I can fairly easily remove with a spoon or fork, let them cool and refrigerate for later.


~ Skim any of the "sludge" that has raised to the top of the broth.


~ Then I add a variety of vegetables, whatever I have around that sounds good. This is to make the vegetable broth. This always includes celery, carrots, cabbage and onion. It may also include mushrooms, zucchini or winter squash, turnips, etc. To my last batch I added beet greens for an hour of the simmer time then removed them so they would not add too strong of a taste. It also added just enough of that wonderful color only beets can add!


~ Bring broth back to a boil then allow to simmer several hours.


~ Pour the whole mixture through colander over another pot. Pour strained broth back into original pot. Separate out the veggies, pick out all bones and skin from colander and discard. Remove any chicken meat pieces you can easily pull out and add them back to the broth.




~ Run boiled veggies through your blender, adding some of the broth to help it blend more easily. Then add the mixture back to the remaining broth and stir well.

~ Now I add tarragon and more sea salt and lemon pepper to taste. I also usually end up adding a little more vinegar to get it to just the right tanginess. Sometimes I also add fresh squeezed lemon juice.


~ This is when I cut up and add back the chicken meat I formerly removed, and more veggies. I add more onion and carrot, mushrooms, zucchini and cabbage plus whatever else I might have around that sounds good. Right now I have alot of winter squash so I dice some of that up (raw) and throw it in.


~ Bring back to a boil then simmer only until veggies are to desired tenderness. Don't let them get mushy.


~ Now you can add whatever else you like. Sometimes I make my great grandma's noodle recipe and add those in. My family also enjoys dumplings so I sometimes add those. But usually I prefer to serve it over rice, couscous or cooked pasta rather than add it in because I don't like the starch to soak up all of the broth.


Do you have a favorite broth, soup or stew that you eat when you don't feel well? I'd love to have your recipe!


NEXT WEEK: Soups using SAUSAGE. Yum. I can't wait to try some recipes!








Saturday, October 17, 2009

Soup's On Saturday! Pumpkin Soups



Today's theme is Pumpkin Soup. So I searched for just the right recipe and I made Velvety Pumpkin Soup with Blue Cheese and Bacon. And I think it is a pretty good recipe going by all of the reviews online. The blue cheese didn't do a thing for me. It just didn't seem to "go". What
I really liked about it was the bacon you sprinkle on top. It really made the soup for me.


Cuz, well...


I've decided pumpkin soup is not my favorite. Not by itself anyway. It's the texture I'm talking about here. It's smooth yet grainy at the same time. I did use my own pumpkin rather than the canned variety. I pureed it myself in the Vita-Mix. Which hasn't been working as well as it should be. Maybe that's the problem.


When I make this Pumpkin Chili my friend Julie C. told me about last year I did enjoy that. But you don't puree the pumpkin for that recipe. And it calls for cumin, which I love.


That said, when I included the addition of bacon, I did enjoy this soup. It was a special soup, and very festive. I will probably never make it again. But I think the recipe is a great one and very simple to make. If you like pureed pumpkin.

Maybe if I add some apple? I am not sure what I am going to do with a pot of it. If any of you locals want it, let me know. Otherwise, the chickens will be having Thanksgiving early.

Does anyone else have a pumpkin soup recipe they actually enjoy? Any tricks to make it not be a little grainy? Any more recipes that use chunks of pumpkin rather than pureed? I have more pumpkin to use and I don't want to use it all in desserts. So I'd love more soup and stew recipes using it.


It's definitely getting to be quite fall-like around here. I am ready to hunker down and get comfy. NEXT WEEK'S THEME will be Soups That Help You Feel Better. I like keeping nourishing and comforting food ideas around for kiddos (and other folks) with sort throats. And "they" are anticipating alot of that sort of thing this season. Some in our extended family have already had H1N1. And I am hearing alot of people sniffling and saying they are not feeling well.

Do you have a broth or soup recipe that is comforting when you don't feel well? Or one that seems to maybe even make you feel better when you eat it? Maybe it has just the right texture or spices, or contains a secret ingredient for helping to fight off sickness. If you do, I'd love to know.


Hoping you and yours stay healthy this week!